ata-anilar uchun engmohim ish nime?elwette kopunchi ata-anilar balilarning ugunushi dep qarap ,kop pul xejlep noqtuluq mekteplerde oqutidu,aile oqutquchisi teklip qilidu ishqilip baliningugunush netijisini yuquri loturush uchun qolidin kilidighanliki ishni qilidu.dimek nurughun ata-anilar aile terbiyisini xata halda aile oqutushi ,bala terbiyisini ching tutush digenlikni balining ugunishini ching tutush digenlik dep qarap,balilarning rohi we jismani saghlamliqigha,eqelli adem bolushning eng addi olchemlirigimu sel qarap keldi.pisxoloklarning qarishi ata -anilardiki mundaq xata qarash balilargha mundaq uch turluk yaman aqiwet ilip kilermish.
1-balilarning artuqchilighini jari qildurup ,yitersizlikin tugetkili ,balilarning ozini kuchaytip qeyinchiliqtin ghalip kelgili bolmaydu,gerche ata-anilar balilar uchun shunche ejir qilsimu tonush,usul toghra bolmighanliqtin waqitliq ugunsh netijisi yaxshi bolsimu biraq axir yenile ugunush,exlaq,rohi we jismani tereptin yaxshiliq ilip kelmeydu .
2-balilarning jemiyetke yuzlinishige tosalghu bolup qalidu.ata-anilar balilarning ugunishige pewqulade kongul bolup ,ularning jemiyettiki her xili mohitt ichide turmush ugunup,normal osup yitilishige sel qarighanliqtin ,balilarning turmush bilimi kam,maslishish iqtidari,musteqil yashash iqitidari bolmaydu.
3-bala bilen ata-ana munasiwitigimu yaman teir qilidu.ata-anilar balilarning yaxshi ugunushi uchun hemme ishni ozi qilip balilarning turmushni ozi his qilishtin megrum qilghanliqtin axir balilarda menisizlik,bizarliq,ozini tartish,horunluqtek yaman adetlet shekkilinip qalidu.
shunga ata-ana bolghuchi imkan bar ailide balilarning ugunushidin tolaraq turmush ugunushni ching tutup ularni koprek aile ishlirigha,ammiwi yighilishlargha,emgek we tenterbiye ishlirigha qatnashturush lazim.
