gerche balilarni choqum urmasliq kirek digili bolmisimu ,emma ata-anilar balilarni uridighan barlik usullirining hemmisi xata.ata-anilar balini urmisa bolmaydighan ehwalda ,ata-anilar balilar riaye qilishqa tigishlik qaide-pirinsiplarni iniq tuzush birish lazim.
ata-anilar chong-kichik ishta,aq-qarini ilghimay hedep balini ursa qandaq aqiwetler kilip chiqidu?
1-bala ozining ata-anisini ulge qilip ,bashqilargha muamilide blidu yaki her-xil ishlarni qilidu.eger ata-ana balilarni dawamliq uridiken ,undaqta balilarmu dosliri,sawqdashliri arisida kichikkine zidiyet bolsimu ,ara-anisigha oxshash adem uruidu.
2-balilar tayaq yep aghrip ketken yaki qorqup ketken chaghda,ozining toghra-xatalighi bilen kari bolmay eksiche tiximu qarshilishish hisiyati kuchuyup baridu-de ata-anisigha bolghan qorqush ,bizarli hetta ochmenliki iship baridu.
3-ata-ana urup turup balining yaman aditini ozgertmekchi bolsa ,kiyinmu dawamliq mushundaq urup turup mesilini hel qilishqa mejbur bolidu-de balilar tiximu qitmalliship biziriwalidu.
4-dawamliq balilarni urghanda,balilarning ozini tonushi towenlep ,ozini eski bala,ishqilip yaxshi bolalmaymen dep oylap ,ozige bolghan ishenchisini yoqutup qoyidu.
likin urmisa bolmaydighan ishlarmu bar bundaq waqitida ata-ana bolghuchi qandaq qilish kirek?
1-ata-ana hergiz ozi qattiq achiqlinip turiwatqanda baligha qol tekkuzmeslik.axhighini bisip quruq heywe bilen qoligha yining bir nime ilip yuz-kozige emes kasisigha yenggil urup qoyush.
2-ishtin awal baligha agahlandurush birish,yeni baligha "yene mushundaq qilsangurimen "dep agahlandurush.hemde bala uridighan yinikrek nersini baliningkoz aldida teyarlap qoyush.
3-urup bolup ish-otup bolghandin kiyin baligha teselli birip tayaq yigendin kiyinki tesiratini sorap qoyush.
qisqisi ,bala xataliq otkuzgende ata-ana eng yaxshisi her-xil usullarni qollunup ,baligha ozi xata qilghanlighini his qildurush,aghzaki iqra qildurush,we mundin kiyin qandaq qilishi toghrusida wede ilish lazim.
