balilar bilen mungdushup turung

balilar her-qachan chonglargha bolupmu ata-anisigha gep qilip birishni bekmu yaxsi koridu.bu ularninmg ata-anisigha ishengenliki we ata-ansini hemidin eziz korgenliki .bundaq waqitta ata-ana bolghuchi hergiz balilarning gipige perwasiz qarimasliq,bizarli bolmasliq lazim.undaq boldiken balilarning izzet-hormitige qattiq tekken bolimiz -de, balilarda bara-bara ata-anisidin ozini chetke ilish,ozige ishenmeslik,ichi kuchluk,rohi chushkun qatarliq molcherligusiz aqiwetler kilip chiqidu.balilarning ihtimal mektepte yaki siritta yolluqqan bezi kongulsiz ishliri bolushi mumkin,bundaq chaghlarda balilar siritta hal-mung bolidighan ishenchilik adem bolmighachqa oyige kilip oz ata-anisigha eytip birishke aldiraydu,bundaq bolushida ikki sewep bar.biri,balilar ata-anisigha siritta bolghan kongulsizliklerni eytip birip ich pushughini chiqiriwalidu-de balining keypiyati yaxshi bolup qalidu.yene biri ,balilar siritta bolghan kongulsizlikerni ata-ainisigha dep birish arqiliq mesilini hel qilishning yaxshi amalini izdewatqan bolidu .mundaq waqitta ata-anilar jim olturup ,estaidil balilarning gipini anglishi lazim,axirida chongqur oylunup,ozining tejirbisige asaslinip toghra bolghan bir terp qilish usulidin bir nechchini baligha ixtiyaren paidilinishqa sunush lazim.undin bashqa bala mektepte yaki bashqa kolluktip paaliyetlerde yaxshi bahagha irishken bolushi mumkin.bundaq chaghda balining ata-anisigha ish-izlirini dep birishtiki mexsidi biri ata-anisini xush qilish,yenebiri ozidin pexirlinip ata-anisiningmu maxtap -mukapatlishini umutu qilish.bu waxtida ata-ana estaidil balininggipini anglap bolup nahayiti tebesum bilen ozining xushal bolghanlilghini bildurishi ,hem imkaniyet bolsa balini mukapatlap qoyushi lazim.dimisimu aile uchun eng bixeter,eng mihri issiq ,kongli yayraydighan jay,balilarning ,ata-anilar choqum inaq-injil bolghan ,yaxshi aile keypiyatini saqlap ,balilarning ugunush we bashqa tereplerdin saghlam osup yitilishi uchun sharait yartihi lazim.balilar bilen koprek parangliship birish balilarning ugunushi,turmushi we iddiyisini her waqit bilip turushning eng yaxshi wastisidur.elwette ata-anilar sohbet timisin ghem qilmisimu bolidu,ata-anilarda yiterlik sewri taqet we illiq pozutsiyela boldiken balilarning sizge deydighan gipi tugumaydu.shunga ata-anilar balilar uchun mexsus waqit chiqirip erkin azade mungdiship turush lazim.